The process of learning to communicate powerfully is a journey of self-discovery. I know — because it’s the story of my life.

Amplify Intimacy :: 25 Conversation Starters to Bring You Closer to Your Mate

WELCOME! I adore Tova & Julie (because they are awesome) and you for Finding Your Muchness!

I have heard about how amazing your journey has been and feel honored to be a small part of your journey to finding peace and happiness and your desire for closeness, for intimacy, and to be heard.

I believe that communication can change any and everything that matters.  And sometimes, the best conversations start with a question. So as I mentioned on our call, I’ve put together a list of 25 questions for intimacy, just for you.  Play with them. Tease with them.  Make a game of it with your mate. Answer them too.  One a day? Two a day? Do what feels right.  The goal is to connect, to illuminate, to understand each other – just a little more.

No rules, except one – do not interrogate.  Just be curious, pick what suits your fancy in the moment and ASK AWAY.





Amplify Intimacy :: 25 Conversation Starters to Bring You Closer to Your Mate

:: What makes you the happiest?

:: If there were no limits on our time, how would you spend time with me?

:: What has been the impact of having me in your life? 

:: What do you love most about me?

:: What do you think I love most about you? (good idea: answer yourself)

:: What is one thing you need an apology from me about?

:: Describe a time you felt most loved by me.

:: When do you feel most yourself? With me? In general?

:: If someone was reading the story of our relationship 100 years from now, what would you want it to say?

:: Let’s give each other a free pass.  If you could ask me to do one thing for you, every day, what would it be? (good idea: commit to do it)

:: Is there an area where you would like me to show you more patience?

:: What is your greatest fear?

:: What is your greatest hope?

:: What is your favorite part of my body?

:: What is your favorite part of your body?

:: What makes you feel needed?

:: What is the funniest thing that ever happened to you?

:: What is the best moment of you life?

:: What do you admire most about yourself?

:: What is one thing you want to be known for?

:: What is your greatest strength?

:: What’s the sexiest thing I’ve ever done?

:: Pick one word to describe yourself.

:: What are you most grateful for?

:: What is one thing I can do today to warm your heart?